THIS TYPE OF SEXUAL ATTRACTION IS A DEFENSE AGAINST AWARENESS OF THE MOST PAINFUL EXPERIENCE IN THE EARTH SCHOOL…THE EXPERIENCE OF BEING POWERLESS.
EXPERIENCES OF ADDICTIVE SEXUAL ATTRACTION CAN BE CONTINUAL AND INTENSE, OCCUPYING ALMOST EVERY THOUGHT, OR THEY CAN BE IN THE BACKGROUND OF AWARENESS, AND ONLY ACTIVATED BY THE APPEARANCE OF A POTENTIAL SEXUAL PARTNER.
THE EXPERIENCE OF ADDICTIVE SEXUAL ATTRACTION IS A FLAG THAT SIGNALS A CRAVING FOR MEANING, PURPOSE, AND VALUE.
THE MORE INTENSE THE PAIN OF FEAR, UNWORTHINESS, AND FEELING UNLOVEABLE BECOMES, THE MORE OBSESSIVE BECOMES THE NEED TO HAVE A SEXUAL INTERACTION.
THAT IS WHY ADDICTIVE SEXUAL INTERACTIONS ARE BARRIERS TO INTIMACY, EVEN THOUGH THEY APPEAR TO BE INTIMATE.
CONNECTING THE EXPERIENCE OF ADDICTIVE SEXUAL ATTRACTION WITH THE AVOIDANCE OF PAINFUL EMOTIONS IS A SIGNIFICANT STEP IN HEALING AN ADDICTION TO SEX.
IN LOVING SEXUAL INTIMACY, SEXUAL PARTNERS ARE NOT INTERCHANGEABLE.
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