When I am allowed to be me,
And you are allowed to be you,
And we accept each other
As a unit,
Letting us keep our personality
Then we can win at being together.
If not,
Then we will not be happy
And do too much changing
Each other till
There is no self.
Then we will not form
As a unit/team in our building
Of our life together.
We will begin to
Grow apart even if
We stay together.
We would have lost
Our bonding as a unit.
Then the closeness will disappear
And bitterness will replace the closeness….
From then on we will not build
The same future as
We would have if
We had allowed ourselves
To be who we are at our best.
Let me be of “guidance” in your relationships.