Once you have decided to be on the circular Being Model and have chosen to have Self-Esteem, to love yourself and treat yourself in a loving way at all times, then there is only one relevant question. The question is: “How do I feel about myself right now”. This question needs to be asked often, especially when we are beginning to learn to love ourselves and to practice loving behaviors, towards ourselves. The question needs to be asked after thoughts, behaviors, actions, and reactions. It needs to be substituted for ” How do I feel about me?” and “What is going on here?” This is the question that will teach you to know yourself, to trust yourself, and to focus your life on exactly what you can control and change.